Part two.... the final debris.

 

 

 

Part 2: His family is on vacation on a European cruise. That I was supposed to be on. They invited me at Christmas. Giving me the itinerary and a planning binder for the trip. Obviously, the invitation was retracted. Well, I figure this is the perfect opportunity to move the rest of my things out of his parents barn. I have been avoiding this task for um....since the break up. Knowing that I would have to see his Mom. I love his Mom and she loved me too. I've talked to his Mom on the phone a few times but each time it has ended with both of us crying....I wanted to avoid all that drama and re-injury to both of us. I knew that he grandma was watching the house so I called her to see if I could come get my things. She said 'Sure.' It turns out that his younger cousin was also there who just recently graduated from high school. She came out to help me put things in my car. Mid-cry of course. She cried explaining how sad she was too and then the rest of the debris were unleashed:  She said " (insert his mom's name here) and I are the only ones who stick up for you." I was taken back by this statement....she said "Well, ever since you put that tracking device on his cell phone and had one of your friends go and yell at him while he was on a date with someone....they think your crazy.... They were going to call you and talk to you about the tracking device." 

UH EXCUSE ME? Tracking device? Sending someone to yell at him while he was on a date? This is the first that I had heard about either of those things. None of my friends have ever mentioned seeing Seth on a date. I don't want to know if he is dating. She goes on to say "Grandma has made comments about how you weren't much of a house keeper." Haha. That statement made me laugh. Ask anyone who knows me, has lived with me, has met me that I prefer things tidy. Not spotless....but I make my bed every day. Do at least a load of laundry a day and keep things tidy.

What does my house cleaning have to do with anything? Bizarre.

 

Apparently his way of coping with how he has treated ME is to villainize me into being a dirty, awful, psycho ex-girlfriend.

Trying to some how justify that he was the 'good guy'. You and I both know the truth, Buddy. You have to live with your actions. All I did was love the wrong guy. You are a liar. You are fake. Karma is a bitch. I am working on not caring what others think about me. But I loved his family. And the thought that he is filling their mind with untrue things about me is so hurtful. It shows a lot about his character.

 

In my previous post I wrote about getting over someone. Deleting all contact with them. Apparently with this dude I have to take the extremes of no contact. I am getting a new phone number. I deleted and blocked anyone (including all his family and friends) who is associated with him on facebook, twitter and instagram.... That is extreme but I don't want to be associated with such a dysfunctional group of people.